See Details: What Men Need From Their Wife Is Not Just S*x

These days that some young ladies take marriage like boyfriend and girlfriend affair where they change s*x partners anyhow and later go back to the "real" guy, a man has to pray well to find a good wife:

S*x is an important element in marriage and until there is s*xual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how important s*x is in marriage.

When you look at how aggressive some men are towards s*x you may think that what men really need from their woman is s*x. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does not really intend to marry you what he will need from you is nothing more than your body.

But if he intends to marry you or you guys are married, s*x is not the real thing he needs from you...

- maybe let me say it better; "WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT S3X."

Many young girls think because they are s*xually active and experienced they will easily be married and have their husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show the man is s*x. Others also think once they are giving out their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which reason they will be chosen above all.

There is this girl who is very beautiful and s*xually active. Due to that she thought s*x is all that matters to a man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting married. Her s*xual dexterity could not win her the heart of a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination a very handsome good man married her.The wedding was grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within five years three different men came her way but none could stay.

The problem was simple. She thought s*x was all that matters so she never consider respect. But respect is what real men need, not just s*x. It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look out for a woman who will satisfy his s*x drive but a woman who will submit herself to him. 

Excuse my language, "every woman has va-gi-na but not every woman has humility". So when you are a humble woman, you are an expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will never want to lose you.

What does the Holy Bible say, "wife, submit to your husband". The reason is that a man's true love goes out only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot make another woman ugly but your humility can let him love you above all other women.

Sadly, many young ladies of today term submission as 'control'. And you will hear them saying in tiny voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh". If you don't want to be submissive don't bother getting married because no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short he may be.

When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her sincerely.

I tell you that every real man does not need just s*x, but a respectful woman. It is submission that truly makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you want to be but when it comes to relating with your husband, play the role of a humble wife. Don't forget that it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to hijack their madams' husbands. Be your man's queen and be his maid also.

I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship and marriage. 

May God bless you with good marriage, my dear sister.

Written by B.I.C. Abeiku Okai

- what can I add to this? Any lady who allows arrogance to control her will suffer a lot as such attributes could drive her away from her husband's house and she becomes a "hang-around". Be wise!