My wife has a hole inside her pussy

 Please I don't mean to insult my wife, just very curious. We had 3 children out of wed lock, so when we finally got married last year, I did not understand her body again. 

My wife's private part is like a very big hole, a very big hole that you can throw in something. Most times when I want to give her a head, I can see her inner pu*sy, everything. The hole is too wide that it gets me very scared. Most times I have to use my hands to cover it and just lick the surface and the clit. 

I don't even want to talk about penetration, because I don't feel anything but because I love her I can endure that. My wife's pu*sy can swallow the whole of my hands, I did not say fingers, hands and still have space. Please married women and mothers in the house, could this be as a result to child birth? 

Is this normal ? Does she need surgery ? Please I need answers. I can't even tell her because she seem to be very comfortable with it. During love making,I have observed she likes the handing method more than my d*ck or fingers, it's only when I penetrate her with my hand that she moans out and gets to orgasm.

Please I'm very sorry if I offended any woman out here, but this is the truth and I need help. My wife has a hole inside her pu*sy.

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