Ladies, come closer... there's no such thing as a home wrecker!

Ladies come closer

See eh. There is nothing like husband and boyfriend snatching. A full grown man cannot be snatched. He is not a handbag in Lagos ghetto.

Unlike your confused hormones, men are not confused. They always know what they want. The only time a man is confused is when he is greedy. Like say before marriage when he is dating Aisha, Amanda, Atinuke, Abiye, Abasiobong and Amaka. That is only when they are confused.

See eh. A man is dating you and maybe thinking of making it permanent and your friend goes to him and tell him you are a prostitute and he goes. Babes stop deceiving yourself. Even though your friend over formed familiarity but that was a man who was really not sure of you, he really needed that one tangible reason to walk away, your village air force just used your friend to give him that reason. If he turns attention to your friend. Brother has been eyeing your friend. He was not snatched , he went with the green light.

Your full grown husband that has been impregnating you and jumping up and down shouting I am your husband sees a babe like me and come and tell me nonsense that I like hearing and we start doing miniminiwanawana you will go to your pastor and say I snatched your husband?? Aunty abeg how, he wanted to go for me that is why he fell for whatever green light I gave him.

Stop institutionalizing bullshit. All men do not cheat. The ones who cheat are those who really want to taste whatever is being offered by another woman. I have told you people that jazz story is silly but let us not go there today.

Any man who wants you as much as you want him will never listen to stupid tales from people. Shey all the runs girls you know back in the days are mostly married. Shey it is coconut trees that married them abi are they not men. The men who married them know what they wanted and did not listen to story. Any man listening to story is a man who already is looking for an excuse to live.

I was sitting with my friend. He is on my list, someone sat down and gave us a run down of all the men the girl he wanted to marry had slept with. Said all the bullshit he knows. When he finished, my friend calmly told him

"nwanna, nwata ka bu spec m"( my brother, the girl is still my spec) end of story."

 They are married today and it has been five years he has never complained to me.

Another friend ( may his soul rest in peace) left his girlfriend that could die for him because of them said he said, this girl cried. I begged him then to marry the one he knows oh, he said no. The babe married someone else who heard all that story and did not care. My friend kept searching for a girl who will be like the one he left till he died suddenly.

Stop breaking your own hearts, any man who leaves was meant to leave. Any man who cheats wanted to cheat. It is not about you or that you were not hold him tightly like how I clutch my purse inside Balogun. He just wanted to do what he did.

Grown men cannot be snatched, he made a decision that suited him. Don't kill yourself about it.

Stella Damasus, Folake and Nuella Njuigbo I am not talking to you people oh.

credit: Amanda Chisom